You deserve support
Welcome,
My name is Tuck Malloy. I am a white, queer, non-binary, polyamorous somatic therapist, relationship coach and sex educator. I live on un-ceded Ohlone land. I work with couples and individuals on relationship challenges, attachment wounds, sexual shame, mental health challenges, and resisting oppressive systems. As a neurodivergent queer and trans person, my work centers around helping people develop the internal and external support needed to thrive in a world that isn’t built for us.
I have a background in global feminisms, sexual assault and domestic violence advocacy, and youth education. I also create holistic workshops on relationships, sensuality, gender identity, BDSM & kink, desire, pleasure, and all the many kinds of sex humans have!
When not teaching or writing new classes I eat my favorite foods, play with my enormous dog, take naps, watch movies, and sing really loudly.
Tucker Malloy, Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #162154 and Certified Holistic Sex Educator
What is Somatic Therapy?
Somatic therapy is an approach to healing that considers a person’s holistic experience, addressing the ways our bodies and brains process and integrate traumatic or difficult experiences. In somatic therapy you can expect questions and curiosities about how things feel in your body, what sensations you notice, and how your body responds to different emotional experiences.
I am located in person in Oakland, CA and available for virtual sessions.
I offer extensive sliding scale options between $75 and $225 per session.
Special Skills
I have completed Basic Somatic and Attachment Focused EMDR training.
I am a certified Holistic Sex Educator
I have completed 2-Day Intensive Online Course: Emotionally Focused Therapy
Not sure where to start?
Sign up for a free 30 minute consultation with Tuck Malloy. They will guide you through the offerings of this space and answer any questions you have. After you sign up for a consult, you will receive an email with information on what to expect during the call.
Author of Expansive Love: a practical guide to relationship anarchy
Relationships Designed to fit you
Relationship anarchy is a new term for a very old practice: prioritizing relationships of all kinds, not just romantic connections. But how does one build an ethical community of friends, lovers and more?
This book will explore how to build and sustain fulfilling relationships within the relationship anarchy framework. We'll discuss the history of relationship anarchy, give you guidance on building intimate relationships with all kinds of people in your life, and look at the ways that relationship anarchy can support a fulfilled and joyous community. This book will offer philosophical, historical, sexological, and anthropological context as well as practical tools for building nuanced, complex, and expansive relationships that traverse and defy social norms.
My goal as a healer is to offer care and transformation for relational, body, and sexual shame for all individuals and as a society. I believe this work is integral to creating a better world for all of us.